~gulagaramsite~: boys ! can girls believe in you ?

assalamualaikum and good evening :)

humppphhhhh, this evening aku macam nak talk about " boys and their relationships ." first of all, i'm so sorry lah if ape yang aku coretkan kat sini mungkin xmenyenangkan sesetengah pihak, but, i just wanna share what i felt and what i see about this kind of things. nothings more. so, please just take it easy. if you dont like it, its okay, just ignore it.. but , i think you should read also larh.. just think about someone opinion, nothing's wrong right ? :)

okay, i started with how serious you are with your currently relationship . ? before tu, think2x la sikit kan.. cuba korang fikir dulu before continue your reading here... okay, dah habis muhasabah diri belum... let's continue yeah.. with a true story yang aku cuma nmpak dari mata kasar je lah.. dont know what exactly happened okay.. so, jangan nak mengutuk aku..

after aku join macam persatuan kat sini kan. aku adelah kenal seorang budak lelaki ni.. same umur ngan aku, and not bad larh dia punyer rupa.. so, after being friend with him, i know larh he already has a girlfriend and dari ape yang aku nampak, he really loves his girlfriend.. dia punyer cara macam wanna let the whole world tahu about their relationship. (okay, agak cemburu. . tapi bukan cemburu ngan dia, but, with his sifat .)
his girlfie xblajar tempat sama ngan kitorang.. agak jauh. and aku rasa macam hubungan jarak jauh jugak larh dorang ni, sebab lelakinya kat sini, pumpuannya blajar kat pantai timur nu haa...

tapi, aku suka tengok when cuti , dorang will hang out together, taking pictures , and nampak sangat sweet .. lebih2 lagi bila aku tengok lelaki tu asyik post his girlfriend nyer gambar, upload so many pictures as he can
.. and sometimes dia buat profile picture gambar awek dia, takpun dia edit gambar dorang and make it as his DP... so, sometimes aku stalked both of them.. hahaha.. soooooo jeles i am okay.. this thing buat aku terfikir, susahnya nak jumpa lelaki macam ni,, dia tahu ape yang dia nak, and dia tak malu and tak kesah tentang orang sekeliling.. dia macam nampak mengaku and bahagia with the relationship.. and aku macam respect kat lelaki yang macam ni.. (teringin jugak nak kenal lelaki macam ni,,, oppsss ! )

then, tetiba aku always nampak budak lelaki ni asyik jalan ngan sorang pompuan.. berdua . firstly, ingatkan dorang kawan je, sebab time tu he still in arelationship with dia nyer gf lah.. biasalah, sometimes aku ni macam mak jemah jugak.. nak tau pasal orang,, okay , stop pasal aku. . then, one day , aku nampak dorang pakai baju same color , turqouise .. ( xtau lah betol tak aku eja, pedulikan. ) and taking pictures together like a newly couple maybe .. pose near pokok like a hindustan tu .. and more... dah rasa macam aish... pastu aku cakap kat kawan aku, kalau aku jadi awek dia mesti aku sedih sebab dia kat sini kemain lagi taking2 photo macam tu... and terus, teringat kat somebody.. kalau lah dia buat macam ni juugak.. hmmm kan jauh... walaupun kau tangkap gambar berdua jugak ngan kawan, but its different tau dari kau taking photo yang macam ni..

then, after a long time, aku tetiba nak tengok budak lelaki tu balik.. HAHHHHHHH !!!!!! amik kau, dah relationship ngan pompuan baru ni.. tengok tarikh dorang tu, sangat baru ,, about a week jer dari hari ni,, oh my god.. aku macam, tak sangka.. dari hubungan yang nampak sangat sweet tu, tetiba dia boleh change it sekejap jer.. padahal hubugan dorang dah lebih dari setahun, tapi dalam masa yang singkat kau dah dapat cari pengganti.. pergghhhh.. so hebat lah you... is this about this girl kau boleh jumpa selalu and your ex tu kau tak boleh jumpa,, thats why you dumped her .. okay, aku tak tau sape dumped sape kan.. tapi, ni dah masuk kategori umum okay.. not about that pasangan anymore.. tapi, nak cakap sikit pasal lelaki tu, aku macam dah tak brape nak respect dah dia sebab benda ni macam happened depan aku jugak..

tapi, aku pun pernah ada experience camni, be with somebody agak lame, then clash.. dalam masa seminggu i got somebody else.. but, my feeling still not for him. so bad kan aku.. hmmm then, clash lagi..

remember :

" immediately replacing someone else in your heart after break with someone you loved,

will make more time you need to heal your heart.."

so, boys out there .. can we (girls) trust you and your sweet talk..? and girls out there, ingat. for the sake of ourselves, dont love too much except for your husband .. :).. coz we know, its hard for women's heart to heal when we lose someone we really loved, rite ?,.. lebih2 lagi, if there was orang ketiga..

boys, take note :